self-discovery
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Whatever happens, happens
I enjoy
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Sorry, but no thanks
After realising that I was simply horny yesterday, I had the good fortune to be approached…
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Feeling … horny
I’ve been feeling… horny… lately. It’s not something that my existing relationships feel able to deliver…
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Held
I arrived at Funiculosus’ house with Steps’ version of Tragedy blasting through the windows like an…
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“Proud” a collection of queer short stories
12 stories by l LGBTQ+ writers Welcome to being LGBTQ+. Your life is inherently political. Politicians,…
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The Shape of Trust
Content note: Discussion of BDSM, rope bondage, and subspace. Is there such a thing as “typical”…
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An ending
Today was an ending. A proper ending. I have taken a break from counselling with Richard…
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A Eunuch Reads The Leatherman’s Handbook
CONTENT WARNING: BDSM, rape fantasy/non-consensual sex in discussion, drugs, castration references. This was the fifty year…
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Pronouns and Predictive Mental Text
I’m walking home from town thinking about my non-binary colleague and their pronouns. It’s the kind…
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Don’t Call Him My Boyfriend
I had a message from a friend today – “enjoying your date?” “Huh?” “With your boyfriend”…
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Learning My Size in Someone Else’s Love Story
I have felt worried that Funiculosus’ partner might feel jealous or threatened by me. I don’t…
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Being Safe to Be Around
So much of my thinking and exploration has been about what kind of people I want…
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Polysecure 4: Pulling It Together
Final part of a 4 part in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern…
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Polysecure 3: Was My Marriage Codependent, or Just Closed?
Part 3 of 4 in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern One section…
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Polysecure 2: What Does It Feel Like to Be Safe With Someone?
Part 2 of 4 in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern At one…