self-discovery

  • Two ways

    Two ways

    I’m not really one of those people who gets off on gear as such. Leather, rubber,…

  • Switch up

    Switch up

    ⚠️ Content warning: BDSM, bondage, sexual activity and sex toys. I am very much the sub.…

  • Fake balls

    Fake balls

    At this company dooh-dah about AI, there were various pieces of tatt to help with the…

  • Imagination

    Imagination

    I’m at one of those company strategy days where you have groups and discussions and then…

  • Superpup

    Superpup

    ⚠️ Content warning: this post discusses BDSM, bondage and suspension, including physical vulnerability and intense emotional…

  • Whatever happens, happens

    Whatever happens, happens

    I enjoy

  • Sorry, but no thanks

    Sorry, but no thanks

    After realising that I was simply horny yesterday, I had the good fortune to be approached…

  • Feeling … horny

    Feeling … horny

    I’ve been feeling… horny… lately. It’s not something that my existing relationships feel able to deliver…

  • Held

    Held

    I arrived at Funiculosus’ house with Steps’ version of Tragedy blasting through the windows like an…

  • “Proud” a collection of queer short stories

    “Proud” a collection of queer short stories

    12 stories by l LGBTQ+ writers Welcome to being LGBTQ+. Your life is inherently political. Politicians,…

  • The Shape of Trust

    The Shape of Trust

    Content note: Discussion of BDSM, rope bondage, and subspace. Is there such a thing as “typical”…

  • An ending

    An ending

    Today was an ending. A proper ending. I have taken a break from counselling with Richard…

  • A Eunuch Reads The Leatherman’s Handbook

    A Eunuch Reads The Leatherman’s Handbook

    CONTENT WARNING: BDSM, rape fantasy/non-consensual sex in discussion, drugs, castration references. This was the fifty year…

  • Pronouns and Predictive Mental Text

    Pronouns and Predictive Mental Text

    I’m walking home from town thinking about my non-binary colleague and their pronouns. It’s the kind…

  • Don’t Call Him My Boyfriend

    Don’t Call Him My Boyfriend

    I had a message from a friend today – “enjoying your date?” “Huh?” “With your boyfriend”…