self-discovery
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Polysecure 1: Attachment vs Neurodivergence – Am I Misreading Myself?
Part 1 of 4 in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern Attachment, trauma…
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The love that doesn’t soothe
Today’s counselling felt like a bit of a brain dump. It can be like that sometimes:…
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How Much Love Is Allowed?
It wasn’t just a frantic Friday – what with meetings at work, my husband had asked…
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Subspace and Churros
I have been feeling drained and emotionally out of sorts for a while, and there’s only…
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Three Chocolate Biscuits Later
I’d been feeling quite drained, possibly due to the antibiotics causing poor sleep and headaches, possibly…
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Soul Wars – Episode 5: Autism, Attachment, and the Nervous System
Ambiguity Isn’t Romantic – It’s Noise For me, ambiguity isn’t “space”, it’s unresolved input. My brain…
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Yes, So What?
Sessions always start with a recap from me of the fortnight proceeding. From that there’s usually…
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How to read an autistic person
I stumbled across the image below while scrolling through Reddit (see, it is good for something)…
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A Quiet Kind of Kink
My Rope Master, Funiculosus, had an unexpected break in his calendar, so drove down to see…
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Soul Wars – Episode 4: The Men Who Drain Me
The Hot–Cold Problem Some people “blow hot and cold” as mum would have said. They can…
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Slow Trains to Madrid
I have started planning my summer holiday to Spain. This is the the second holiday that…
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Safety in Danger
After the previous night’s fun with the tongue bite and the endless bleeding, I was shattered…
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Fluctuations in the Power Grid
There are times when one’s body just doesn’t cooperate. Like today I went to play with…
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ChatGPT Wrapped 2025
(or: what happened when I accidentally used an AI as a thinking partner for a whole…
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Soul Wars – Episode 3: The Men Who Restore Me
… continuing from Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence. The Unexpected Metric I used…