relationships

  • Whatever happens, happens

    Whatever happens, happens

    I enjoy

  • Politics with my brother

    Politics with my brother

    Several months ago I discovered that my brother watched GB News and got a lot of…

  • One year

    One year

    Two things happened a year ago this month. One of them a year ago today. A…

  • Sorry, but no thanks

    Sorry, but no thanks

    After realising that I was simply horny yesterday, I had the good fortune to be approached…

  • Feeling … horny

    Feeling … horny

    I’ve been feeling… horny… lately. It’s not something that my existing relationships feel able to deliver…

  • Partial Eclipse

    Partial Eclipse

    A few times a year I drive to Clevedon in North Somerset to polish my nan…

  • Held

    Held

    I arrived at Funiculosus’ house with Steps’ version of Tragedy blasting through the windows like an…

  • Missing in company

    Missing in company

    I have made a new friend on a new dating/hookup app. I’ll call him Calpurnius. He’s…

  • Apparently I’m a Gay Elder Now

    Apparently I’m a Gay Elder Now

    Last night I had a “gentleman caller”. We’d met on Scruff. I’d kinda given up on…

  • Rope, Return of the Jedi, and the Golden Girls

    Rope, Return of the Jedi, and the Golden Girls

    For the first time ever, Funiculosus – my friend and rope master – stayed the night.…

  • Repopulating My World

    Repopulating My World

    After separating from my husband I am slowly populating my world. Some people come into it…

  • Still the Wedding Anniversary

    Still the Wedding Anniversary

    The wedding anniversary. That’s what it will always be – even if we are now divorced…

  • The Shape of Trust

    The Shape of Trust

    Content note: Discussion of BDSM, rope bondage, and subspace. Is there such a thing as “typical”…

  • The family that never was

    The family that never was

    Yesterday, as I was out walking the dog, dealing with the deep, deep sadness of the…

  • A Eunuch Reads The Leatherman’s Handbook

    A Eunuch Reads The Leatherman’s Handbook

    CONTENT WARNING: BDSM, rape fantasy/non-consensual sex in discussion, drugs, castration references. This was the fifty year…