relationships

  • The need to be held

    The need to be held

    I was talking to my boss over lunch today (he is a lovely guy and we…

  • United in loss

    United in loss

    My Dom, Funiculosus, is my best friend. He has his own partner to whom he is…

  • Two ways

    Two ways

    I’m not really one of those people who gets off on gear as such. Leather, rubber,…

  • Carpal Care in Kink

    Carpal Care in Kink

    ⚠️ Content note: BDSM, rope suspension. For more years than I can remember the thumb and…

  • A little less peppy

    A little less peppy

    Usually, leading up to the weekend I take a double shot of Testavan testosterone gel to…

  • Shitfaced Shakespeare, Sober

    Shitfaced Shakespeare, Sober

    I’ve been spending a little less time with Calpurnius because there’s something about our setup that…

  • Bound to sleep

    Bound to sleep

    Funiculosus, my Rope Master, I have been seeing for over a year now. We are very…

  • Little gestures mean a lot

    Little gestures mean a lot

    Funiculosus loves cooking – especially for somebody who appreciates it! Not only does he tie me…

  • Switch up

    Switch up

    ⚠️ Content warning: BDSM, bondage, sexual activity and sex toys. I am very much the sub.…

  • Emotional musical assault

    Emotional musical assault

    It started with Phil Collins’ version of “You can’t hurry love” playing in the radio. My…

  • Cycling and suspension

    Cycling and suspension

    ⚠️ Content warning: This post discusses BDSM, bondage, rope suspension, restraint, nudity and subspace. The times…

  • Subspace and tacos

    Subspace and tacos

    ⚠️ Content warning: this post discusses BDSM, bondage and restraint, nudity and subspace. Also tacos. Sometimes…

  • Dropping by my ex

    Dropping by my ex

    I’d not heard from my ex for a couple of weeks, other than a holding text…

  • Superpup

    Superpup

    ⚠️ Content warning: this post discusses BDSM, bondage and suspension, including physical vulnerability and intense emotional…

  • Whatever happens, happens

    Whatever happens, happens

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