relationships
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Whatever happens, happens
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Politics with my brother
Several months ago I discovered that my brother watched GB News and got a lot of…
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One year
Two things happened a year ago this month. One of them a year ago today. A…
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Feeling … horny
I’ve been feeling… horny… lately. It’s not something that my existing relationships feel able to deliver…
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Partial Eclipse
A few times a year I drive to Clevedon in North Somerset to polish my nan…
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Missing in company
I have made a new friend on a new dating/hookup app. I’ll call him Calpurnius. He’s…
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Apparently I’m a Gay Elder Now
Last night I had a “gentleman caller”. We’d met on Scruff. I’d kinda given up on…
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Rope, Return of the Jedi, and the Golden Girls
For the first time ever, Funiculosus – my friend and rope master – stayed the night.…
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Repopulating My World
After separating from my husband I am slowly populating my world. Some people come into it…
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Still the Wedding Anniversary
The wedding anniversary. That’s what it will always be – even if we are now divorced…
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The Shape of Trust
Content note: Discussion of BDSM, rope bondage, and subspace. Is there such a thing as “typical”…
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The family that never was
Yesterday, as I was out walking the dog, dealing with the deep, deep sadness of the…
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A Eunuch Reads The Leatherman’s Handbook
CONTENT WARNING: BDSM, rape fantasy/non-consensual sex in discussion, drugs, castration references. This was the fifty year…


