relationships
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The love that doesn’t soothe
Today’s counselling felt like a bit of a brain dump. It can be like that sometimes:…
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You Didn’t Have to Read It
It’s been a long weekend in every sense. My (ex) husband left hospital on Friday after…
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How Much Love Is Allowed?
It wasn’t just a frantic Friday – what with meetings at work, my husband had asked…
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Administrative emotion
I had a sleepless night following an emotional evening with my husband. I then had a…
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Musings in the small hours
It’s 03:47. I have been awake for hours. My head keeps going over the evening. I…
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The Relief of Not Deciding
It was a very early start for a Saturday. I had to get to Southampton Central…
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The Space Between Friends
Friday night is movie night! And this Friday Ambrosius suggested “Sinners”… and that we invite Patricius.…
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What If I Said That About Men?
I chat with my dad on the phone at least once a week. He always says…
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Radiators and Revelations
I am slowly repairing the house after the flood of the summer before last. The husband…
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At The Temple of the Nanna Goddess
I am come again to the temple of the nanna goddess on Clevedon pier. Today she…
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Subspace and Churros
I have been feeling drained and emotionally out of sorts for a while, and there’s only…
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Three Chocolate Biscuits Later
I’d been feeling quite drained, possibly due to the antibiotics causing poor sleep and headaches, possibly…
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Divorce, in Instalments
My husband forwarded an email to me that he’d received from his solicitors: we are reaching…
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Loving Him Means Loving Them
What a fascinating day! Funiculosus had asked for a day in Southsea with him and his…
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The Safest Word We Have
A couple of days ago I exchanged a series of WhatsApp messages with my husband. He…
