October 2026

  • Goodbye dear Sir Patrick

    Goodbye dear Sir Patrick

    I heard this evening that my hero, Sir Patrick Stewart passed away today. I wrote this…

  • Maddening mental music and the silence of kink

    Maddening mental music and the silence of kink

    During the day my head is playing music at me. I don’t mean that I “hear”…

  • Two ways

    Two ways

    I’m not really one of those people who gets off on gear as such. Leather, rubber,…

  • Carpal Care in Kink

    Carpal Care in Kink

    ⚠️ Content note: BDSM, rope suspension. For more years than I can remember the thumb and…

  • A little less peppy

    A little less peppy

    Usually, leading up to the weekend I take a double shot of Testavan testosterone gel to…

  • Coffee

    Coffee

    Funiculosus calls me “puppy” because I enjoy puppy play – but he’s also noticed that I…

  • Shitfaced Shakespeare, Sober

    Shitfaced Shakespeare, Sober

    I’ve been spending a little less time with Calpurnius because there’s something about our setup that…

  • What’s happening in Senegal?

    What’s happening in Senegal?

    I spend a fair bit of time reading about LGBTQ+ issues, so I was surprised to…

  • Chunky

    Chunky

    Every now and then I go onto a hookup app in an attempt to scratch a…

  • Bound to sleep

    Bound to sleep

    Funiculosus, my Rope Master, I have been seeing for over a year now. We are very…

  • Memoirs of a Byzantine Eunuch (Christopher Harris)

    Memoirs of a Byzantine Eunuch (Christopher Harris)

    “If you still had your balls,” the charioteer muttered, “if cut them off.” How often have…

  • Little gestures mean a lot

    Little gestures mean a lot

    Funiculosus loves cooking – especially for somebody who appreciates it! Not only does he tie me…

  • Switch up

    Switch up

    ⚠️ Content warning: BDSM, bondage, sexual activity and sex toys. I am very much the sub.…

  • Fake balls

    Fake balls

    At this company dooh-dah about AI, there were various pieces of tatt to help with the…

  • Emotional musical assault

    Emotional musical assault

    It started with Phil Collins’ version of “You can’t hurry love” playing in the radio. My…