self-discovery
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Not Much to Pack These Days
Since my surgery, there’s been a lot less to pack out my underwear with. To state…
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Dysphoria, Again?
I’m feeling a bit worried. I don’t like it when my penis touches me. That feeling…
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My Blogging Process: Behind the Scenes
This is the final post in the My Blogging Process series, following on from My Blogging…
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My Blogging Process: The Types of Posts I Write
Continued from My Blogging Process: From Secret Code to Public Blog Types of entries There are…
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My Blogging Process: From Secret Code to Public Blog
Throughout my life I have, at times, kept diaries. I go years without keeping a diary,…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 4)
Non-binary and neuro-divergence Through a parallel process, I worked out that I was probably somewhere on…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 3)
Coming out as gay is a lifelong task; it doesn’t stop. But there’s more than just…
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A eunuch weekend – Day 2 – Chillaxing and Social
Star Trek: The Nude Generation It felt late when we got up, but it was only…
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A eunuch weekend – Day 1: Leather, Love, and London
An indirect journey I half expected the husband to stay in bed until I left the…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 2)
Continued from Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 1) It feels like…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 1)
Coming out isn’t a single event, but a lifelong process. Every person you tell, every person…
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Minority Stress
I first heard the term “minority stress” from my friend Tacitus, long before I encountered it…
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The Labyrinth with a Heart
The reason so many people get lost in thought is because it is unfamiliar territory. Paul…
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The Invisible Work I Didn’t Know I Was Doing
I always thought executive dysfunction was something other people had, but today I cried because I…
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Anthropomorphise at Your Peril: Introducing Galateos
You wanted beauty. You wanted understanding. You wanted someone who would listen without interrupting, judge without…
