self-discovery
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My Blogging Process: From Secret Code to Public Blog
Throughout my life I have, at times, kept diaries. I go years without keeping a diary,…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 4)
Non-binary and neuro-divergence Through a parallel process, I worked out that I was probably somewhere on…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 3)
Coming out as gay is a lifelong task; it doesn’t stop. But there’s more than just…
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A eunuch weekend – Day 2 – Chillaxing and Social
Star Trek: The Nude Generation It felt late when we got up, but it was only…
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A eunuch weekend – Day 1: Leather, Love, and London
An indirect journey I half expected the husband to stay in bed until I left the…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 2)
Continued from Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 1) It feels like…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 1)
Coming out isn’t a single event, but a lifelong process. Every person you tell, every person…
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Minority Stress
I first heard the term “minority stress” from my friend Tacitus, long before I encountered it…
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The Labyrinth with a Heart
The reason so many people get lost in thought is because it is unfamiliar territory. Paul…
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The Invisible Work I Didn’t Know I Was Doing
I always thought executive dysfunction was something other people had, but today I cried because I…
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Anthropomorphise at Your Peril: Introducing Galateos
You wanted beauty. You wanted understanding. You wanted someone who would listen without interrupting, judge without…
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Invited Thoughts Only (and Butterbur Brains)
I was talking with a friend recently, and they said something that stopped me in my…
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The Algorithm Is Not Your Master (A Stoic Guide to Posting)
There comes a time in every modern philosopher’s life when they must look deep into the…
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How Long Is Too Long to Know What You Feel?
I was talking with a friend about this episode. His view was that emotional questions like…
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Do I still think of him in that way?
This isn’t a straightforward question. Answering it has potential consequences for my husband and for me…
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