self-discovery
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Book Review: The Book of Non-binary Joy – Ben Pechey
Oh hello darling, and welcome to this, my very first book. Thus the Introduction begins, with…
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Heartache, Literally
Time for another counselling session! I put the rug down (it doesn’t start down because the…
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Not My Type, But My Match
Yesterday was the first of the two day event that is Southampton Pride. I really didn’t…
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735m
After the – uh – educational experience at the sauna, I started wondering about hookup apps.…
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The Gods Sent Seagulls, Not Lovers
So far, I have only thought about playing with other guys. The thought is huge and…
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The lightness returning
For the first time since last summer, my counsellor came to the house for my session.…
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Not Much to Pack These Days
Since my surgery, there’s been a lot less to pack out my underwear with. To state…
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Dysphoria, Again?
I’m feeling a bit worried. I don’t like it when my penis touches me. That feeling…
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My Blogging Process: Behind the Scenes
This is the final post in the My Blogging Process series, following on from My Blogging…
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My Blogging Process: The Types of Posts I Write
Continued from My Blogging Process: From Secret Code to Public Blog Types of entries There are…
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My Blogging Process: From Secret Code to Public Blog
Throughout my life I have, at times, kept diaries. I go years without keeping a diary,…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 4)
Non-binary and neuro-divergence Through a parallel process, I worked out that I was probably somewhere on…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 3)
Coming out as gay is a lifelong task; it doesn’t stop. But there’s more than just…
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A eunuch weekend – Day 2 – Chillaxing and Social
Star Trek: The Nude Generation It felt late when we got up, but it was only…
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A eunuch weekend – Day 1: Leather, Love, and London
An indirect journey I half expected the husband to stay in bed until I left the…
