September 2026

  • The Mysterious Disappearing Tattoo Guy of Lyndhurst

    The Mysterious Disappearing Tattoo Guy of Lyndhurst

    ⚠️ Content warning: catfishing, scams, pornographic images and discussion of sex. Now I’m single, I’m on…

  • Fear?

    Fear?

    ⚠️ Content warning: heart attack, possible cardiac symptoms, A&E, anxiety, fear of dying. Here I am…

  • What changed after castration? A Reddit question

    What changed after castration? A Reddit question

    ⚠️ Content warning: sexual content, hookup culture and references to sex. I was messaged by somebody…

  • Testsvan as lube

    Testsvan as lube

    ⚠️ Content warning: This post discusses testosterone gel, sex and intimate anatomy. I’ve tried applying my…

  • The body’s warning

    The body’s warning

    Work is stressful. Immovable deadlines. Difficult staff issues. Mandatory strategy days out. The household stresses are…

  • Cycling and suspension

    Cycling and suspension

    ⚠️ Content warning: This post discusses BDSM, bondage, rope suspension, restraint, nudity and subspace. The times…

  • Subspace and tacos

    Subspace and tacos

    ⚠️ Content warning: this post discusses BDSM, bondage and restraint, nudity and subspace. Also tacos. Sometimes…

  • Imagination

    Imagination

    I’m at one of those company strategy days where you have groups and discussions and then…

  • The body remembers

    The body remembers

    I wonder? I’ve been feeling very anxious this last week and I’ve had a migraine. My…

  • Picard’s wisdom

    Picard’s wisdom

    In my first experiences as a manager, many years ago, I joked that I rather liked…

  • Sebastiene

    While I was travelling around Spain I saw a lot of art depicting Saint Sebastian, a…

  • Dropping by my ex

    Dropping by my ex

    I’d not heard from my ex for a couple of weeks, other than a holding text…

  • Superpup

    Superpup

    ⚠️ Content warning: this post discusses BDSM, bondage and suspension, including physical vulnerability and intense emotional…

  • Why Is the Internet Full of Kayaks?

    Why Is the Internet Full of Kayaks?

    Sometimes, not having to consult before spending money isn’t such a good thing. A couple of…

  • Beorn Made Me Gay

    Beorn Made Me Gay

    While I was mincing my way around Spain this summer, I had as my constant companion…