self-discovery
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Evolving identity – selecting demiguy
Defining my identity is an ongoing and dynamic process. It’s not static, which I’m glad about—I’m…
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Making use of a sleepless night
It’s four-thirty in the morning on Wednesday. I can’t sleep. I realised that I’ve made the…
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Unmasking Autism (book review) – Part 3
Chapter 6 – Building an autistic life Divergent design questions What are some textures that ground…
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One year
The card My husband gave me a card this morning; despite all our difficulties, isn’t he…
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Meditations on mediations
My friend, Tacitus, who is yep months older than me as a Eunuch asked me a…
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Last time with my counsellor
Thinking about couples counselling I’ve been putting some thoughts into what I want to say to…
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Change is challenging
Overwhelming change Yesterday I was chatting with a friend, when the penny dropped and I understood…
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Understanding a past disappointment
Its interesting that the more I learn about myself, the greater understanding I have of my…
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Reflections a year on – Part 3
This post continues with my review of the kinds of things I considered before pressing on…
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Friday! At last!
I feel really quite knackered this week. The husband has been in a mood and I…
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A second coming out
This story was written at the suggestion of an online friend (who has since been converted…
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Impromptu chat
We’d both been sleeping very badly, the husband because he was angry about something, me because…
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Reflections a year on – Part 2
This post continues with my review of the kinds of things I considered before pressing on…
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Unmasking Autism: Book Review (part 2)
Continued from Unmasking Autism: Book Review. Chapter 3 – The anatomy of the mask The first…
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Feeling low on Friday
It feels like it’s been a rubbish old week. Saturday and Wednesday I tried to open…
