self-discovery

  • What is a Eunuch?

    And my answer is! It’s complicated! There was a fascinating discussion on the Discord servers a…

  • Challenging Gender Norms: Clothing and Comfort

    A note on cycling It took a while to get off last night, but not as…

  • Navigating Separation and Boundaries

    Navigating Separation and Boundaries

    We talked again last night. He was quieter – seeming sad (which we both are). I…

  • Gendering objects

    Gendering objects

    The content explores encountering technical issues, discussing AI reliance, gendering inanimate objects, and sexuality stereotypes. It…

  • It’s A Sin

    It’s A Sin

    My husband and I recently rewatched the Channel 4 drama It’s A Sin, written by Russel…

  • Brother and Sister Eunuchs

    At first, when I began this journey, I was alone and as far as I was…

  • New counsellor

    New counsellor

    I’ve just had my first session with my new counsellor; based on a suggestion that my…

  • Starting the search for a sex-aware therapist

    Starting the search for a sex-aware therapist

    My troubled home life leads to seeking therapy for my “dark fantasies” and strained marriage, amid…

  • Eunuch Meet Up

    For a few hours, despite differences in our stories and our lives, I was in a…

  • What do I want from a relationship?

    What do I want from a relationship?

    Doctor call I had a telephone call with the doctor today. Not the usual one but…

  • Struggling with my priorities

    An advantage to not having testosterone I slept on the sofa again. I know that I…

  • Honesty

    Honesty

    An unexpected like The author of this blog “liked” one of my posts, so I duly…

  • A dangerous gift

    A dangerous gift

    Stupid brain I’ve been awake for hours. Too tired for coherent thought, nevertheless thoughts chatting each…

  • Woof! Wag! Wag!

    Woof! Wag! Wag!

    System test My husband has been off sex with me because I cannot cum. Or cumming…

  • Mayflower Society

    Nervous newbie Tonight I’m visiting the local trans group The Mayflower Society; I don’t know how…