relationships

  • Separate Beds?

    Facing another uncomfortable feeling Sleeping on top of the duvet under the blanket helped me get…

  • How does testosterone effect achievement?

    Thoughts on my Sunday run A good night’s sleep and I have actually woken feeling refreshed!…

  • Fur Heaven’s Sake!

    Fur Heaven’s Sake!

    Starting Out Feeling Low Today. My husband and I talked last night. I was tired, with…

  • It’s Time For Cherry’s Quiz

    It’s Time For Cherry’s Quiz

    The London Hotel in Southampton hosts Cherry’s Quiz, emceed by drag queen Cherry Liqueur. The playful…

  • Doctor Update

    Cycle to Work Yesterday I did my first cycle to work since – well, maybe since…

  • I Like To Ride My Bicycle

    First Cycle In Months After a good night’s sleep (even waking with what might charitably called…

  • New Bike

    New Bike

    Check in A good night’s sleep with no noticeable flushes, although it was helped by a…

  • Guilt vs Shame

    As I continue to go through a difficult time in my marriage, feeling low and tired.…

  • Seeing myself as I am

    A mirror breaks This journey doesn’t end with me having my testicles removed: it has started…

  • Worried about my sex drive

    Take that hot flushes! Last night I took a couple of sleepers (a weekend only treat)…

  • Wanderer returns

    Adaptation I slept eat better last night. Rather than fighting to stay under the gorgeous, heavy,…

  • Ten Years of Gay Marriage in the UK

    Harrumph. The Hot Flushes Return Last night’s sleep was greatly disturbed by hot flushes, after four…

  • Happy Easter

    Happy Easter

    Three Nights and no Hot Flushes I slept really well last night, no hot flushes, but…

  • Learning to enjoy grief

    Learning to enjoy grief

    Quiet Night A second night without flushes, which is good, but also nothing to get excited…

  • Funny online people

    Check In The hot flushes were worse than ever last night: I sweated buckets and the…