relationships

  • Inconvenient shutdowns

    Inconvenient shutdowns

    U-turn More about last night, which proved unexpectedly difficult. I got a text from my husband…

  • A gap in the definition

    A gap in the definition

    Pumped up These last few days I’ve tried a double pump of Testavan gel. Two pumps…

  • Ten reasons I’m lucky to have my husband

    Ten reasons I’m lucky to have my husband

    I thought that it would be fun and fruitful to list some of the reasons that…

  • Guilty

    Today I have to day off. I have a massage booked later – I wanted a…

  • Farewell my lovely bolthole

    Farewell my lovely bolthole

    Last night Last night wasn’t much better than the previous night. I asked the husband whether…

  • Uncomfortable at home

    Uncomfortable at home

    I got home from counselling at the flat last night. My husband was in some kind…

  • Blood and brains

    Blood and brains

    Phlebotomist Today I had the second of my endocrinologist instructed blood tests. The test was at…

  • Working from Home During Renovations

    Working from Home During Renovations

    Date night Sanding I’m working from home so that I can be around for the sanding…

  • My Counsellor

    My Counsellor

    Introduction I thought it would be good to share in one place some of my experiences…

  • Relationship evolution

    Relationship evolution

    A different type of evening By the book Tonight, for the first time, I popped my…

  • First weekend together

    First weekend together

    Saturday Hiding in bed I really did not want to get up this morning. I know…

  • The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 3

    The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 3

    Continued from … You can take the risk of arousing one if your scary emotions almost…

  • Therapy night

    Therapy night

    I always feel excited to see my counsellor. These are sometimes very difficult sessions, but we…

  • The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 2

    The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 2

    Continued from The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 1 In the section “Flirting and Cruising”…

  • Back ache and coffee shops

    Back ache and coffee shops

    Sleeping late Better nights sleep I slept much better last night. The sleep aids really helped,…