relationships
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Out of spoons
Spoon one Yesterday morning I dropped in on my husband on the way to the office…
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Validation
Trying to care for hubby Another rough night worrying over my husband; I think that I…
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Hurrah for working from my new home
He’d called an ambulance for himself. I sat on the kerb outside, not able to go…
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And then it really goes tits up
Evening with my husband I was very anxious about going home. Husband will also very anxious…
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Endings and beginnings
System tests I perform system tests a couple of times a week. The system is a…
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Towards calm
Last night we talked again. My husband is starting to struggle as the reality of my…
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Coming out to a work friend
There’s somebody I work with and feel like he’s a friend, but there’s been this unsaid…
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Navigating Separation and Boundaries
We talked again last night. He was quieter – seeming sad (which we both are). I…
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Emotional tension
Yesterday morning I managed to get up after a really rotten night’s sleep; anxiety induced not…
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Moving towards moving out
I went into the office yesterday. I rarely work overtime, I tend to avoid working at…
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Emotional impasse
Yesterday was another morning that I found it very difficult to get up. I felt very…
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I know what causes hot flushes!
Yesterday, I met my husband after work in a coffee shop. We talked for a bit,…
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Back at home
I found that I wasn’t looking forward to going home – or perhaps was apprehensive of…
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Desert Island Discs: All Kinds Of Everything III
This post is for my husband – it’s our 16th wedding anniversary today. Many years ago,…
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Starting the search for a sex-aware therapist
My troubled home life leads to seeking therapy for my “dark fantasies” and strained marriage, amid…