May 2026
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Follow-up with my MP: Online anonymity and biometric age verification
I heard back from my MP on the issues I raised on the back of our…
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A Little More Like Me
Two little updates. The drains are being fixed on the house insurance. They have already made…
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The vacuum packed sub
My time with Funiculosus is a constant journey – we are always trying new things. Sometimes…
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An ending
Today was an ending. A proper ending. I have taken a break from counselling with Richard…
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A Eunuch Reads The Leatherman’s Handbook
CONTENT WARNING: BDSM, rape fantasy/non-consensual sex in discussion, drugs, castration references. This was the fifty year…
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Wicked, Emasculation, and Otherness
Content warning: discussion of castration, sexual violence, and torture. I thought I knew the story. I’d…
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What is life like as a eunuch?
I struggle to get up in the morning, but when I go downstairs the dog is…
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Eurovision. Missed.
Eurovision punctuated our marriage. We celebrated it every year, sometimes going away for the event in…
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Rope after London
Since we didn’t go to the street food market near Waterloo station during our visit to…
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Patriotism Is Not Enough
Funiculosus (my Rope Master and Puppy Daddy) and I made another foodie trip to London. This…
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Pronouns and Predictive Mental Text
I’m walking home from town thinking about my non-binary colleague and their pronouns. It’s the kind…
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Shed grief
It started with some news about my drains: the insurance company is going to pay, and…
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Beaulieu
This year my birthday was intentionally low-key. The week-long blow-outs of the past are far behind…
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Pronouns in the Wild
Pronouns are funny things. I remember as a kid my mum telling me off for saying…
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A Kinder Place
I have a cold. That low grade misery that zaps your brain. I realised that I…