self-discovery

  • When Anger Fades, but Feelings Linger

    When Anger Fades, but Feelings Linger

    Reflecting back I read my post about what my husband said on Monday to him last…

  • Counselling at a new place

    Counselling at a new place

    Richard, my counsellor, has arranged for us to meet somewhere else. It’s about twenty minutes walk…

  • Hormonal weight changes

    Hormonal weight changes

    A bit flabbier My body has changed a lot in the last year. The most obvious…

  • Guilty

    Today I have to day off. I have a massage booked later – I wanted a…

  • Uncomfortable at home

    Uncomfortable at home

    I got home from counselling at the flat last night. My husband was in some kind…

  • Blood and brains

    Blood and brains

    Phlebotomist Today I had the second of my endocrinologist instructed blood tests. The test was at…

  • The Myth of Normal (book review) – Part 1

    The Myth of Normal (book review) – Part 1

    I picked up this book because it appeared to challenge, from the title, the idea of…

  • My Counsellor

    My Counsellor

    Introduction I thought it would be good to share in one place some of my experiences…

  • Relationship evolution

    Relationship evolution

    A different type of evening By the book Tonight, for the first time, I popped my…

  • The worst and best class

    The worst and best class

    Mr Pullen Disorderly In the year before my GCSE exams for once a week there was…

  • First weekend together

    First weekend together

    Saturday Hiding in bed I really did not want to get up this morning. I know…

  • The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 3

    The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 3

    Continued from … You can take the risk of arousing one if your scary emotions almost…

  • Beyond binary

    Beyond binary

    Genders in opposition? The inspiration I was reading an article on eunuchs on the https://www.academia.edu site…

  • Therapy night

    Therapy night

    I always feel excited to see my counsellor. These are sometimes very difficult sessions, but we…

  • The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 2

    The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 2

    Continued from The Ethical Slut (book review) – Part 1 In the section “Flirting and Cruising”…