relationships
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Managing myself or controlling my husband?
Last week, I got myself into a bit of trouble with the husband for forgetting things,…
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Did I Just Tell Everyone I’m a Eunuch?
Yesterday I wrote a post about big companies rolling back their inclusiveness policies in the wake…
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Labels and lattes
We went for a coffee today, and I talked about the things that I’d recently realised…
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Valentine’s
With our marriage in such a state, celebrating valentine’s feels … awkward? Yet, we do love…
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Intro to the couples counsellor
Last night, I had my introductory session with the couples counsellor. Next week the husband will…
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Making use of a sleepless night
It’s four-thirty in the morning on Wednesday. I can’t sleep. I realised that I’ve made the…
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Counsellor #3
Gay and tired The two interviews of prospective couples counsellors left me feeling a little bit…
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Two interviews for couple counsellors
Tonight we had two interviews for potential couples counsellors. The first at 5:00 p.m. straight after…
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Thinking about couples counselling
After my morning run and my regular phone call to my dad (he has a lot…
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Last time with my counsellor
Thinking about couples counselling I’ve been putting some thoughts into what I want to say to…
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Change is challenging
Overwhelming change Yesterday I was chatting with a friend, when the penny dropped and I understood…
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The face I’d rather not see
The husband had been low since last weekend. I didn’t have a clear idea if why.…
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Friday! At last!
I feel really quite knackered this week. The husband has been in a mood and I…
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Impromptu chat
We’d both been sleeping very badly, the husband because he was angry about something, me because…
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Couples counselling concerns
What a rotten night! My head was busy – after the talk on Saturday, when my…
