relationships

  • SingStar sadness

    SingStar sadness

    I thought we’d start watching “The Great British Sewing Bee” tonight, but the husband said “What’s…

  • Seventeen years

    Seventeen years

    Seventeen years ago today we had our civil partnership, which,  thanks to a trick in the…

  • A song to free love

    A song to free love

    I learnt this as a child in church. Back then it felt like a sweet song…

  • Love, Reframed

    Love, Reframed

    Things are calm again. I think that we are slowly accepting that our marriage is, and…

  • Too Much to Carry

    Too Much to Carry

    Things have been difficult at home. The last time my husband tried to talk to me…

  • A powerless witness

    A powerless witness

    My husband is struggling to a) find a flat to rent and b) supply all the…

  • Pushing for answers

    Pushing for answers

    It’s nearly 6pm and I’m struggling to come out of a shutdown. I’m in bed. I…

  • Pickle the Chips

    Pickle the Chips

    This afternoon I had a text from my husband asking if I’d got anything for our…

  • I Do Not Hate You

    I Do Not Hate You

    Yesterday, I got a text from the bank with an authorisation code. I wasn’t trying to…

  • Trying to stay grounded

    Trying to stay grounded

    The end of an another emotionally exhausting week. I went for a cycle to the beach.…

  • Am I a Monster?

    Am I a Monster?

    Another ruined night’s sleep. Waking at stupid o’clock by the continuation of the migraine that had…

  • A New Reader

    A New Reader

    My husband knows that I keep a blog of eunuch life – and my life. Sometimes,…

  • Schrödinger’s Marriage

    Schrödinger’s Marriage

    Last summer, the husband and I went to the nudist beach in Portsmouth (read about it…

  • A eunuch weekend – Epilogue

    A eunuch weekend – Epilogue

    The two days that I was with Cicero, I had one headache, which was easily dispatched…

  • A eunuch weekend – Day 2 – Chillaxing and Social

    A eunuch weekend – Day 2 – Chillaxing and Social

    Star Trek: The Nude Generation It felt late when we got up, but it was only…