relationships

  • It’s Time For Cherry’s Quiz

    It’s Time For Cherry’s Quiz

    The London Hotel in Southampton hosts Cherry’s Quiz, emceed by drag queen Cherry Liqueur. The playful…

  • Doctor Update

    Cycle to Work Yesterday I did my first cycle to work since – well, maybe since…

  • I Like To Ride My Bicycle

    First Cycle In Months After a good night’s sleep (even waking with what might charitably called…

  • New Bike

    New Bike

    Check in A good night’s sleep with no noticeable flushes, although it was helped by a…

  • Guilt vs Shame

    As I continue to go through a difficult time in my marriage, feeling low and tired.…

  • Seeing myself as I am

    A mirror breaks This journey doesn’t end with me having my testicles removed: it has started…

  • Worried about my sex drive

    Take that hot flushes! Last night I took a couple of sleepers (a weekend only treat)…

  • Wanderer returns

    Adaptation I slept eat better last night. Rather than fighting to stay under the gorgeous, heavy,…

  • Ten Years of Gay Marriage in the UK

    Harrumph. The Hot Flushes Return Last night’s sleep was greatly disturbed by hot flushes, after four…

  • Happy Easter

    Happy Easter

    Three Nights and no Hot Flushes I slept really well last night, no hot flushes, but…

  • Learning to enjoy grief

    Learning to enjoy grief

    Quiet Night A second night without flushes, which is good, but also nothing to get excited…

  • Funny online people

    Check In The hot flushes were worse than ever last night: I sweated buckets and the…

  • Coming Unravelled

    And there goes another! Last night, just before bed, the first stitches fell out. Well, I…

  • Blowing Hot And Cold

    I might still be able to get it up, but I can’t get comfortable at night:…

  • Rise of the Eunuchorn

    New Ache I did my ED exercise last night, so it was a lovely surprise when…