relationships
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Rope, Trust, and Lunch
As I got out of the car, Funiculosus was as the door waiting. I ran towards…
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When the Garden Starts to Smell Like Defeat
Drains. Not good news. The chaps came today in the pouring rain, dug a hole, removed…
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Grief Doesn’t Check Relationship Status
After the relaxing and fun time with Funiculosus, I spent the evening wit my husband. I’d…
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A Quiet Kind of Kink
My Rope Master, Funiculosus, had an unexpected break in his calendar, so drove down to see…
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Soul Wars – Episode 4: The Men Who Drain Me
The Hot–Cold Problem Some people “blow hot and cold” as mum would have said. They can…
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First Counselling of 2026: Ambush vs Agreement
I didn’t think we’d be looking at the timeline today – there was quite a bit…
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Safety in Danger
After the previous night’s fun with the tongue bite and the endless bleeding, I was shattered…
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New Year’s Day Blues
I had asked the husband to come over for lunch New Years Day. He likes celebrating…
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Soul Wars – Episode 3: The Men Who Restore Me
… continuing from Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence. The Unexpected Metric I used…
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Two Candles
On the anniversary of my mum’s death, I go to Winchester cathedral to light a candle.…
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The Harder Part of Christmas
… continued from The Quiet Part of Christmas … At just after quarter-past-one, I packed all…
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Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence
Following on from Soul Code – Episode 1: The Silent Menace Opening Scene – The Familiar Isn’t…
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When the Body Remembers Before I Do
I’ve had a cold these last few days. Nothing dramatic – just enough to flatten me…
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Counselling: Notes from the Table
Counselling! I laid out the chart of my marriage on the table to ready for Richard,…

