relationships
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Conversations that go nowhere
In our couples counselling, my husband had talked about feeling very anxious around me. I thought…
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Lost in translation
I’m tired and confused after today’s counselling session. When my husband is anxious, he vibrates. When…
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Am I Seen? The Fight for Recognition and an Intimate Moment
I am feeling a little confused. Last night, I sent hubby the a link to the…
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Circling the End
My husband felt very low yesterday. He said “can we talk?” I’m not keen on these…
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Book Review: Open Love – the complete guide to gay open relationships, polyamory, and more
My husband bought us this book to read and work through together. We kept having the…
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Drained
I don’t know what we spent the last ninety minutes talking about. I don’t feel good…
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Couples counselling: starting to own my part?
I woke with a migraine. Like an idiot, I went for a run lunchtime. “Kill or…
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Coffee, cake, and conversation
We’d agreed on the date that we’d next have a heavy talk together, which I appreciated.…
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If there was a way we could still be friends, would it make letting go easier?
My husband asked this of me in counselling. I was surprised by it and couldn’t answer…
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Navigating boundaries and the need for clarity
The morning after our last counselling session, and after I’d been able to reflect just a…
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Counselling again
Last session, Roxy asked us not to talk about anything heavy until this session. I could…
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What do I want from my husband?
During our last couples counselling, Roxy (our counsellor) suggested that we didn’t have any deep conversations…
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Second couples counselling
Last night I asked my husband whether there was anything he wanted to talk about before…
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The fault is not in our stars, but in ourselves
I love being a guncle! I spent the day with my brother and little nephews, primarily…
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Hard conversations and harder truths
Owning my own cruelty It had been a week of migraines and anxiety. However there were…
