relationships
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Quiet awkward
Last night, my husband was very quiet. He barely said anything to me. I did try…
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Priscilla the Second, Queen of the Desert
The first dates There were two films that I watched with the man who became my…
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Discussing meltdowns
Meltdowns Today at counselling I wanted to talk about my meltdowns. Sometimes I get angry –…
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Feeling safe on the rug
Feeling down We’ve talked three days this week with various degrees of success (ie how long…
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When Anger Fades, but Feelings Linger
Reflecting back I read my post about what my husband said on Monday to him last…
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Strong like glass
Broken spirit Last night, I asked my husband if he’d like to talk. He has been…
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Counselling at a new place
Richard, my counsellor, has arranged for us to meet somewhere else. It’s about twenty minutes walk…
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Hormonal weight changes
A bit flabbier My body has changed a lot in the last year. The most obvious…
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Nephews are a privilege
Batman Today I went back to Bristol to spend the day with my two gorgeous nephews.…
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The price of confession
I think that this is really how my husband feels: “Oh Tess, forgiveness does not apply…
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Paid in chocolate
I’m irritated I’m still feeling irritated and moody over the way the husband asked me to…
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Inconvenient shutdowns
U-turn More about last night, which proved unexpectedly difficult. I got a text from my husband…
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A gap in the definition
Pumped up These last few days I’ve tried a double pump of Testavan gel. Two pumps…
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Ten reasons I’m lucky to have my husband
I thought that it would be fun and fruitful to list some of the reasons that…
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Guilty
Today I have to day off. I have a massage booked later – I wanted a…
