relationships
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The Space Between Friends
Friday night is movie night! And this Friday Ambrosius suggested “Sinners”… and that we invite Patricius.…
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What If I Said That About Men?
I chat with my dad on the phone at least once a week. He always says…
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At The Temple of the Nanna Goddess
I am come again to the temple of the nanna goddess on Clevedon pier. Today she…
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Subspace and Churros
I have been feeling drained and emotionally out of sorts for a while, and there’s only…
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Three Chocolate Biscuits Later
I’d been feeling quite drained, possibly due to the antibiotics causing poor sleep and headaches, possibly…
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Divorce, in Instalments
My husband forwarded an email to me that he’d received from his solicitors: we are reaching…
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Loving Him Means Loving Them
What a fascinating day! Funiculosus had asked for a day in Southsea with him and his…
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The Safest Word We Have
A couple of days ago I exchanged a series of WhatsApp messages with my husband. He…
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Rooted in Kink, Cemented in Life
My Rope Master, Funiculosus, had a driving accident earlier in the week that has left his…
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I Cannot Be His Only Light
The day before counselling, my husband and I went out for a drive and dinner in…
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Fantasy, Reality, and the Honour of Trust
After being tied and tormented twice in the most delicious ways, Funiculosus and I went out…
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Soul Wars – Episode 5: Autism, Attachment, and the Nervous System
Ambiguity Isn’t Romantic – It’s Noise For me, ambiguity isn’t “space”, it’s unresolved input. My brain…
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Yes, So What?
Sessions always start with a recap from me of the fortnight proceeding. From that there’s usually…
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Just a Nice Evening
It had been a busy day. A 5k run, then a call to my old dad,…
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Rope, Trust, and Lunch
As I got out of the car, Funiculosus was as the door waiting. I ran towards…
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