Apr 2025
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How Long Is Too Long to Know What You Feel?
I was talking with a friend about this episode. His view was that emotional questions like…
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What a day
I don’t know what just happened. We went out for coffee, me suggesting that we talk…
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Do I still think of him in that way?
This isn’t a straightforward question. Answering it has potential consequences for my husband and for me…
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Running for Butterflies: Why I’m Doing the Bristol Half for Cancer Research
In just under a month, I’ll be running in the Bristol Half Marathon to raise money…
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Migraine Mode: Active
These days I suffer from a lot of emotional anxiety. Well, I say “these days”, but…
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The Assyrian Eunuchs Who Ruled and Fought
When we imagine ancient warriors, we usually picture bearded men in armour, testosterone-fuelled and sword-swinging. What…
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Trying Not to Be a Dick
Today I got a message from my husband, which read something like: “I was wondering if…
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Ouranos: The Castrated God Who Brought Time to Life
The Origin and Fall of Ouranos In the beginning, before time itself, there was Ouranos –…
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A relationship should be…
Yesterday, I went out on my own with the dog. I’d hoped that hubby would come,…
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The sea, the dog, and peace!
A couple of years ago, my husband and I ran in the Bournemouth Half Marathon. It’s…
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Stubbornness, sex, and self-knowledge
So we talked again last night. My idea. I started by reading what I wrote the…
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The Taxonomy of Friendship: Polyamory and Neurodivergence
My friend Tacitus once said, “I don’t understand the taxonomy of friendship.” At the time, I…
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A Mask of Cheerfulness, A Core of Frustration
As I cycled into the office this morning, through the wonderful bright spring sunshine – knackered…
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Boundaries or Control? A matter of perspective
We went for pizza before our counselling session. Great pizza, but there was an atmosphere between…
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Work DEI questionnaire
Today, HR sent around a Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion questionnaire. Our managing director has always valued…
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