self-discovery
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Self-harm is self-harm
On Wednesdays couples counselling, my husband shared about his self-harm. I wasn’t aware of his bulimia…
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When you learn not to tell
When I felt sad, unhappy, angry, confused, bewildered, lonely, bullied, who did I speak to? Who…
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Evolving identity – selecting demiguy
Defining my identity is an ongoing and dynamic process. It’s not static, which I’m glad about—I’m…
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Making use of a sleepless night
It’s four-thirty in the morning on Wednesday. I can’t sleep. I realised that I’ve made the…
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One year
The card My husband gave me a card this morning; despite all our difficulties, isn’t he…
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Reflections a year on – Part 2
This post continues with my review of the kinds of things I considered before pressing on…
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Reflections a year on – Part 1
On the build up to my surgery last year, I was asked lots of questions by…
