self-discovery
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A Quiet Kind of Kink
My Rope Master, Funiculosus, had an unexpected break in his calendar, so drove down to see…
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Soul Wars – Episode 4: The Men Who Drain Me
The Hot–Cold Problem Some people “blow hot and cold” as mum would have said. They can…
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Asking the Internet If I Was Allowed to Exist
A few days ago I had a ping from Reddit on a post that I’d made…
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Slow Trains to Madrid
I have started planning my summer holiday to Spain. This is the the second holiday that…
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Safety in Danger
After the previous night’s fun with the tongue bite and the endless bleeding, I was shattered…
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Fluctuations in the Power Grid
There are times when one’s body just doesn’t cooperate. Like today I went to play with…
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ChatGPT Wrapped 2025
(or: what happened when I accidentally used an AI as a thinking partner for a whole…
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Soul Wars – Episode 3: The Men Who Restore Me
… continuing from Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence. The Unexpected Metric I used…
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Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence
Following on from Soul Code – Episode 1: The Silent Menace Opening Scene – The Familiar Isn’t…
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When the Body Remembers Before I Do
I’ve had a cold these last few days. Nothing dramatic – just enough to flatten me…
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Counselling: Notes from the Table
Counselling! I laid out the chart of my marriage on the table to ready for Richard,…
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Respectful humiliation
This post follows directly from Consent Is the Foreplay, and continues my reflections on consent, trust, and…
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Clarity Is Kinder Than Confusion
Content warning:This post discusses sexual encounters, bereavement, boundary-setting, and emotional discomfort. There are references to grief…
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Before I Knew How to Leave
This post discusses sexual encounters, emotional coercion, bereavement, religious guilt, and experiences of obligation around sex.…
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A day that taught me about compassion, consent, and leaving early
So. Here’s the thing. I’d been messaging a guy that I met on Recon (a gay…
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