relationships
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Self-harm is self-harm
On Wednesdays couples counselling, my husband shared about his self-harm. I wasn’t aware of his bulimia…
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Our first couples counselling
Tonight is our first couples counselling together since the world went crazy and I came out…
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Talking about balance – part 1
I’d had a migraine all day yesterday, which not only made my head hurt, but had…
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Balance
Struggling with Balance in My Relationship Balance is something I have always struggled with, especially in…
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Another coming out
I spent today with a friend I’ve not seen in nearly three years. He lives in…
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Am I Secretive, or Are We Just Stuck?
I wasn’t in a good space. I’m tired. The husband wasn’t in a good space either…
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Talking about identity
As agreed with my husband earlier in the week, I opened a conversation with him last…
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Managing myself or controlling my husband: the conversation
Tired I was very tired when I got home last night. After tea and walking the…
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Managing myself or controlling my husband?
Last week, I got myself into a bit of trouble with the husband for forgetting things,…
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Labels and lattes
We went for a coffee today, and I talked about the things that I’d recently realised…
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Valentine’s
With our marriage in such a state, celebrating valentine’s feels … awkward? Yet, we do love…
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Intro to the couples counsellor
Last night, I had my introductory session with the couples counsellor. Next week the husband will…
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Making use of a sleepless night
It’s four-thirty in the morning on Wednesday. I can’t sleep. I realised that I’ve made the…
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Memory
My husband and I are in a coffee shop talking. While we’re talking, I’m playing with…
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One year
The card My husband gave me a card this morning; despite all our difficulties, isn’t he…
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