self-discovery
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Picking up from the bar meal
Sex talk Getting into the right headspace After work, I had a couple of gummies, had…
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Remembering November 2023
I’ve been re-reading my first blog entries from November last year (Nov 2023 – Eunuchorn). I…
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Al Anon
Background I grew up in a family where my mum and my nan were both religious.…
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Pedestals
When we first met, I worshiped the man who was to become my husband. He is…
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Reflecting on the bad meal
Counselling It’s usual in counselling to recap anything significant that’s happened in the period since the…
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Last mental health nurse this year
Asking for me time I am struggling to feel OK to do the things I need…
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A November dream
The dream Today’s counselling session began by me recounting a dream I had last night: My…
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The magic pill
The question I was chatting with a friend and he mentioned a question that’s often asked…
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Discussing meltdowns
Meltdowns Today at counselling I wanted to talk about my meltdowns. Sometimes I get angry –…
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Anniversary of my first blog post
A year ago today I wrote my first blog post (A second coming out?). It was…
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Three brains models: interpreting shutdowns
When I last saw the mentally health nurse, she talked about “the the brains”: our logical…
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When Anger Fades, but Feelings Linger
Reflecting back I read my post about what my husband said on Monday to him last…
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Counselling at a new place
Richard, my counsellor, has arranged for us to meet somewhere else. It’s about twenty minutes walk…
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Hormonal weight changes
A bit flabbier My body has changed a lot in the last year. The most obvious…
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Guilty
Today I have to day off. I have a massage booked later – I wanted a…
