mental-health
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Rooted in Kink, Cemented in Life
My Rope Master, Funiculosus, had a driving accident earlier in the week that has left his…
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Hypnosis Soothes. Subspace Transforms.
It started with me linking the mental experiences of subspace and hypnosis as connected and similar,…
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Soul Wars – Episode 5: Autism, Attachment, and the Nervous System
Ambiguity Isn’t Romantic – It’s Noise For me, ambiguity isn’t “space”, it’s unresolved input. My brain…
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Yes, So What?
Sessions always start with a recap from me of the fortnight proceeding. From that there’s usually…
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How Video Calls Fracture Focus
The last couple of days I’ve had back to back video meetings. And it’s doing my…
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A Quiet Kind of Kink
My Rope Master, Funiculosus, had an unexpected break in his calendar, so drove down to see…
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Soul Wars – Episode 4: The Men Who Drain Me
The Hot–Cold Problem Some people “blow hot and cold” as mum would have said. They can…
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First Counselling of 2026: Ambush vs Agreement
I didn’t think we’d be looking at the timeline today – there was quite a bit…
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Asking the Internet If I Was Allowed to Exist
A few days ago I had a ping from Reddit on a post that I’d made…
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Slow Trains to Madrid
I have started planning my summer holiday to Spain. This is the the second holiday that…
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Soul Wars – Episode 3: The Men Who Restore Me
… continuing from Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence. The Unexpected Metric I used…
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Two Candles
On the anniversary of my mum’s death, I go to Winchester cathedral to light a candle.…
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Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence
Following on from Soul Code – Episode 1: The Silent Menace Opening Scene – The Familiar Isn’t…
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When the Body Remembers Before I Do
I’ve had a cold these last few days. Nothing dramatic – just enough to flatten me…
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Counselling: Notes from the Table
Counselling! I laid out the chart of my marriage on the table to ready for Richard,…