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  • Respect

    Respect

    A drive to the beach After yesterday’s enormously enjoyable but somewhat exhausting day, I was woken…

  • The mental health nurse at the surgery

    Meeting with the mental health nurse at the surgery Yesterday, I met with the mental health…

  • A first date

    A first date

    Last night I met my husband for dinner for a date. I’d suggested that we have…

  • Meditations on why I needed what I needed

    I am discussing identity with a friend. What does it mean for me to be non-binary?…

  • Coping with Chaos: Navigating Productivity and Neurodiversity

    Coping with Chaos: Navigating Productivity and Neurodiversity

    Chaotic yesterday Yesterday really was chaos and my brain didn’t help much. The morning was largely…

  • Castrated (book review)

    Castrated (book review)

    The book delves into the evolving cultural significance of castration from ancient times to present. It…

  • Starting the search for a sex-aware therapist

    Starting the search for a sex-aware therapist

    My troubled home life leads to seeking therapy for my “dark fantasies” and strained marriage, amid…

  • Two Little Words

    Last night I asked my husband how much he would like to know about the search…

  • Personal Ad

    Menopausal Relapse I think I ate too much rich food yesterday; everything had cream in it,…

  • I Need A Dom

    I Need A Dom

    A New Hope Yesterday, my husband and I talked. That makes it seven days in a…

  • What do I want from a relationship?

    What do I want from a relationship?

    Doctor call I had a telephone call with the doctor today. Not the usual one but…

  • Woof! Wag! Wag!

    Woof! Wag! Wag!

    System test My husband has been off sex with me because I cannot cum. Or cumming…

  • Fur Heaven’s Sake!

    Fur Heaven’s Sake!

    Starting Out Feeling Low Today. My husband and I talked last night. I was tired, with…

  • The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink

    The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink

    I started reading this book while I was in the recovery centre in Mexico. I got…

  • Hypnosis

    Look into my eyes… A few years ago, I tried to get my husband into restraint…