diary

  • Strong like glass

    Strong like glass

    Broken spirit Last night, I asked my husband if he’d like to talk. He has been…

  • Counselling at a new place

    Counselling at a new place

    Richard, my counsellor, has arranged for us to meet somewhere else. It’s about twenty minutes walk…

  • Hormonal weight changes

    Hormonal weight changes

    A bit flabbier My body has changed a lot in the last year. The most obvious…

  • Nephews are a privilege

    Batman Today I went back to Bristol to spend the day with my two gorgeous nephews.…

  • The price of confession

    The price of confession

    I think that this is really how my husband feels: “Oh Tess, forgiveness does not apply…

  • Paid in chocolate

    I’m irritated I’m still feeling irritated and moody over the way the husband asked me to…

  • Inconvenient shutdowns

    Inconvenient shutdowns

    U-turn More about last night, which proved unexpectedly difficult. I got a text from my husband…

  • Shutdown

    A quick note. Counselling. Husband changed his mind about me having it in the house. Counselling…

  • Farewell my lovely bolthole

    Farewell my lovely bolthole

    Last night Last night wasn’t much better than the previous night. I asked the husband whether…

  • Uncomfortable at home

    Uncomfortable at home

    I got home from counselling at the flat last night. My husband was in some kind…

  • Last night in my flat

    Friday Bath time! My husband wasn’t keen on going to the flat, I think that it’s…

  • Moving back home

    Moving back home

    On my own in the flat I decided to spend one last night in flat by…

  • Working from Home During Renovations

    Working from Home During Renovations

    Date night Sanding I’m working from home so that I can be around for the sanding…

  • Relationship evolution

    Relationship evolution

    A different type of evening By the book Tonight, for the first time, I popped my…

  • First weekend together

    First weekend together

    Saturday Hiding in bed I really did not want to get up this morning. I know…