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Coffee, cake, and conversation
We’d agreed on the date that we’d next have a heavy talk together, which I appreciated.…
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Vandals and the need for Pride
The husband and I were going out for a Sunday drive. Our car had been parked…
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If there was a way we could still be friends, would it make letting go easier?
My husband asked this of me in counselling. I was surprised by it and couldn’t answer…
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Navigating boundaries and the need for clarity
The morning after our last counselling session, and after I’d been able to reflect just a…
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Making the most sunny day at the office
There’s not a lot to do of lunchtime at the office. In the summer, or at…
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Counselling again
Last session, Roxy asked us not to talk about anything heavy until this session. I could…
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Second couples counselling
Last night I asked my husband whether there was anything he wanted to talk about before…
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Hard conversations and harder truths
Owning my own cruelty It had been a week of migraines and anxiety. However there were…
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Our first couples counselling
Tonight is our first couples counselling together since the world went crazy and I came out…
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Talking about balance – part 1
I’d had a migraine all day yesterday, which not only made my head hurt, but had…
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Another coming out
I spent today with a friend I’ve not seen in nearly three years. He lives in…
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Am I Secretive, or Are We Just Stuck?
I wasn’t in a good space. I’m tired. The husband wasn’t in a good space either…
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Talking about identity
As agreed with my husband earlier in the week, I opened a conversation with him last…
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Managing myself or controlling my husband: the conversation
Tired I was very tired when I got home last night. After tea and walking the…
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Managing myself or controlling my husband?
Last week, I got myself into a bit of trouble with the husband for forgetting things,…
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