Apr 2026
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The Dog Is Going to Be Fine
The dog is going to be fine! It was a benign tumour with no sign of…
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Learning My Size in Someone Else’s Love Story
I have felt worried that Funiculosus’ partner might feel jealous or threatened by me. I don’t…
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A Real Lady Bracknell and a Beagle
The husband came over to see the dog, who is recovering from her little operation. Not…
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The Beagle in the £1600 Bodysuit
Today my darling doggy is off to have a wee operation because she has a little…
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Being Safe to Be Around
So much of my thinking and exploration has been about what kind of people I want…
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The Riot of Spring Scents
Winter passes and the metallic smell of cold is replaced by the sweet scents of spring.…
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The Puppy in the Kitchen
There’s more to being a Rope Puppy or a Puppy Daddy than just rope and cuddles!…
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Polysecure 4: Pulling It Together
Final part of a 4 part in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern…
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Polysecure 3: Was My Marriage Codependent, or Just Closed?
Part 3 of 4 in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern One section…
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Polysecure 2: What Does It Feel Like to Be Safe With Someone?
Part 2 of 4 in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern At one…
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Polysecure 1: Attachment vs Neurodivergence – Am I Misreading Myself?
Part 1 of 4 in a short series reflecting on Polysecure by Jessica Fern Attachment, trauma…
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The love that doesn’t soothe
Today’s counselling felt like a bit of a brain dump. It can be like that sometimes:…
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Tell Me I’m Still Yours
I had a “gentleman caller” visit last night. I told my friend and Dom, Funiculosus, that…
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The Case for Not Leaving the House
I enjoy working from home. Its a privilege really – there are lots of jobs that…
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You Didn’t Have to Read It
It’s been a long weekend in every sense. My (ex) husband left hospital on Friday after…
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