Dec 2025
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ChatGPT Wrapped 2025
(or: what happened when I accidentally used an AI as a thinking partner for a whole…
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Public (in)conveniences
I had to come into town to have a contact lens checkup. Busting for a pee,…
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Soul Wars – Episode 3: The Men Who Restore Me
… continuing from Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence. The Unexpected Metric I used…
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The Eunuch as Infrastructure
(or: what societies kept building instead of fixing themselves) When we talk about eunuchs, we usually…
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Two Candles
On the anniversary of my mum’s death, I go to Winchester cathedral to light a candle.…
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The Harder Part of Christmas
… continued from The Quiet Part of Christmas … At just after quarter-past-one, I packed all…
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The Quiet Part of Christmas
Christmas Eve I asked my husband (not yet ex) whether he’d like to come and watch…
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Soul Code – Episode 2: Growing Around the Absence
Following on from Soul Code – Episode 1: The Silent Menace Opening Scene – The Familiar Isn’t…
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When the Body Remembers Before I Do
I’ve had a cold these last few days. Nothing dramatic – just enough to flatten me…
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Counselling: Notes from the Table
Counselling! I laid out the chart of my marriage on the table to ready for Richard,…
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A calm coffee with my Ex
Having cancelled my play with Funiculosus and my family visit for tomorrow, I decided to take…
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Responsibility, Snot, and Disappointment
I have been so excited about seeing Funiculosus this weekend. We’d been messaging each other, both…
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Respectful humiliation
This post follows directly from Consent Is the Foreplay, and continues my reflections on consent, trust, and…
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Consent Is the Foreplay
Severus and I met on a gay hookup app in August. We were actually scheduled to…
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Clarity Is Kinder Than Confusion
Content warning:This post discusses sexual encounters, bereavement, boundary-setting, and emotional discomfort. There are references to grief…
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