Oct 2025
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Being Heard: My MP’s Response on Trans Healthcare and Hate Crime
You might remember that a little while ago I wrote to my MP regarding the current…
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Vanishing Eunuchs
I noticed long time ago that in many online communities, people tended to vanish shortly after…
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Double Standards
As time moves on, I find myself reflecting on this that happened. One of them came…
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A Chronologically Confused Cardiac Adventure
I’d had an MRI last Monday, where they induced all the sensations of a panic attack,…
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Early bed without a guilt trip.
I had a long Friday night. A busy Saturday day. It’s Saturday night. I’m tired. I…
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The Postulant
Today I met up with a fellow who had been suffering from dysphoria for a very…
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The post-mortem begins
It felt like there was a lot to talk about in counselling: it’s not everyday that…
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Paperwork
Last week I had an email informing me that my husband was starting divorce proceedings against…
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Beta-Blocked Below the Belt
I’ve been having a bit of trouble with down there lately. It’s not been working properly.…
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Sun Salutations and Self-Trust
I have felt so tired lately. Last night I went to bed even earlier, but it…
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After the Evil Empire: Britain’s Long War on Difference
After the Evil Empire: Britain’s Long War on Difference “…since the gradual collapse of the Evil…
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Knowing me, knowing you
Having the house to myself, I’m tending to finishing jobs, repairing things, and tidying stuff. I’m…
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The lure of gendering
While I was reading Ben Pechey’s “Book of Non-Binary Joy”, I found that I was trying…
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I used to think love was enough
My husband sent me a message today asking for tech support with his soundbar and printer.…
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No option for sadness
So. He has done it. He has applied for a divorce. I guess that’s the right…
