Feb 2025
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Self-harm is self-harm
On Wednesdays couples counselling, my husband shared about his self-harm. I wasn’t aware of his bulimia…
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When you learn not to tell
When I felt sad, unhappy, angry, confused, bewildered, lonely, bullied, who did I speak to? Who…
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Our first couples counselling
Tonight is our first couples counselling together since the world went crazy and I came out…
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Talking about balance – part 1
I’d had a migraine all day yesterday, which not only made my head hurt, but had…
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Balance
Struggling with Balance in My Relationship Balance is something I have always struggled with, especially in…
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Another coming out
I spent today with a friend I’ve not seen in nearly three years. He lives in…
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Am I Secretive, or Are We Just Stuck?
I wasn’t in a good space. I’m tired. The husband wasn’t in a good space either…
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Talking about identity
As agreed with my husband earlier in the week, I opened a conversation with him last…
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Evolving identity – selecting demiguy
Defining my identity is an ongoing and dynamic process. It’s not static, which I’m glad about—I’m…
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Managing myself or controlling my husband: the conversation
Tired I was very tired when I got home last night. After tea and walking the…
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Managing myself or controlling my husband?
Last week, I got myself into a bit of trouble with the husband for forgetting things,…
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Did I Just Tell Everyone I’m a Eunuch?
Yesterday I wrote a post about big companies rolling back their inclusiveness policies in the wake…
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The Perfidious Retreat from Inclusivity
What Corporate Rollbacks on LGBTQ+ Protections Mean for Us All When a storm is brewing, the…
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Labels and lattes
We went for a coffee today, and I talked about the things that I’d recently realised…
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Valentine’s
With our marriage in such a state, celebrating valentine’s feels … awkward? Yet, we do love…
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