Menopausal Relapse

I think I ate too much rich food yesterday; everything had cream in it, and I have developed a bit of lactose intolerance as I have gotten older: fresh cream and fresh milk make me feel ill. I drink oat milk or yogurt (which is partly digested).

I also had hot flushes last night. I thought they were done with. Hopefully that’s the last kicking from them!

And loo visits! I felt like I needed a wee several times last night.

In all, it was a very restless night. If my husband hadn’t already taken himself into the spare bedroom (which he made up especially), I’d have slept on the sofa.

Today I need more than half a brain at work: I need to demo the team’s work to the rest of the project.

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Calling All Doms!

After talking with my husband, I’ve updated my FetLife about to say a bit more about what I’m looking for and what I hope to offer. A friend read it and offered to tidy it up, which he did very well I think! (Thank you)

Gay, semi-masc eunuch here (I had an orchidectomy at MTC in Feb 2024). I’m married but in an open relationship — looking to fill some gaps in my exploration of kink and fetish. For me, this exploration of submission is within masculinity and a kind of neuter space, not feminisation. Submission and bottom preferences connect to my interests in bondage, pup play, and more advanced things like CNC and primal. My ideal BDSM company is to find a Dom who is cool about my married status and up for a long term trusting connection, as well as a community of support. I found community valuable during my journey through dysphoria to relief in surgery in Mexico, which you can read about here: https://eunuchorn.uk

I don’t know what to do next! I guess something will occur to me eventually!

One thing I will check out is how much my husband wants to know about this quest.