Apr 2024

  • Referral Sent At Last

    Rough Night There was a funny atmosphere last night; I asked husband what was up, but…

  • I Like To Ride My Bicycle

    First Cycle In Months After a good night’s sleep (even waking with what might charitably called…

  • New Bike

    New Bike

    Check in A good night’s sleep with no noticeable flushes, although it was helped by a…

  • Doctor Cancelled

    Reviewing Monday My husband and I had another good talk about the things I’d raised on…

  • Is the doctor being obstructive?

    Yet another poor night’s sleep. Hot flushes weren’t so bad and this was the second night…

  • Guilt vs Shame

    As I continue to go through a difficult time in my marriage, feeling low and tired.…

  • Morning and afternoon

    Another poor night’s sleep, again more from a busy head than hot flushes (although they still…

  • Seeing myself as I am

    A mirror breaks This journey doesn’t end with me having my testicles removed: it has started…

  • DOMS that isn’t kinky

    Achy legs Another reasonable night’s sleep. That was with the blanket rather than the duvet, so…

  • Worried about my sex drive

    Take that hot flushes! Last night I took a couple of sleepers (a weekend only treat)…

  • Wanderer returns

    Adaptation I slept eat better last night. Rather than fighting to stay under the gorgeous, heavy,…

  • Why are hot flushes worse at night?

    I’m bored of hot flushes already After a successful (and highly enjoyable) systems test last night,…

  • Home Alone

    Spinning at the Gym I slept downstairs last night after not being able to shut my…

  • Ten Years of Gay Marriage in the UK

    Harrumph. The Hot Flushes Return Last night’s sleep was greatly disturbed by hot flushes, after four…

  • Eight Weeks!

    Four Nights So that’s four nights in a row without any hot flushes! Is this enough…