pride
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Book Review: The Book of Non-binary Joy – Ben Pechey
Oh hello darling, and welcome to this, my very first book. Thus the Introduction begins, with…
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A seat in the shade
Earlier in the week, I asked my husband whether he’d like to come to Bournemouth Pride…
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International Non-Binary Day 2025
International Non-Binary Day has a pretty charming and intentional origin – it wasn’t born in protest,…
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End of Pride 2025
This month I looked part of “masculinity” as part of the “Rainbow Pantheon”, investigating how it…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 4)
Non-binary and neuro-divergence Through a parallel process, I worked out that I was probably somewhere on…
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The Rainbow Pantheon : Lesbian Masculinity
Masculinity isn’t the sole possession of people who identify as men, as I hope previous posts…
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The Rainbow Pantheon: Trans Masculinity
Trans is a fascinating area for eunuchs and nullos. Many of us identify as trans, yet…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 3)
Coming out as gay is a lifelong task; it doesn’t stop. But there’s more than just…
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The AIDS Quilt
Three double rows of quilts. Some are beautifully simple, others are elaborate works of art. There…
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The Rainbow Pantheon: Agender Masculinity
Agender people are often categorised under the trans or non-binary umbrellas – though many would object,…
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The Rainbow Pantheon: Asexual Masculinity
Asexual means “a person who experiences no sexual feelings or desires, or who is not sexually…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 2)
Continued from Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 1) It feels like…
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The Rainbow Pantheon: Non-Binary Masculinity
As part of my blog series for Pride 2025, I’m exploring the ongoing process of coming…
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The Rainbow Pantheon: Bisexual Masculinity
When I first came out, the denial and erasure of bi people was rampant – especially…
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Coming Out Isn’t a Moment – It’s a Lifetime (Part 1)
Coming out isn’t a single event, but a lifelong process. Every person you tell, every person…
