August 2025

  • BEEBEEBEE: Life on the ward

    BEEBEEBEE: Life on the ward

    Cardiac wards are bloody noisy! There’s always some alarm or other going off. Then there’s conversations…

  • A little knowledge could kill

    A little knowledge could kill

    So. It was a heart attack. Running, cycling, gym, on average healthy food with fruit and…

  • Heartache, Literally

    Time for another counselling session! I put the rug down (it doesn’t start down because the…

  • Nuzzles

    Nuzzles

    I was chatting to a fellow pup on Recon. He was drawn to me as a…

  • Kobayashi Maru

    Kobayashi Maru

    On the way back from the nudist beach, we stopped at Costa for a coffee. I…

  • Nuddy beach and the baboon’s bum

    Nuddy beach and the baboon’s bum

    My (ex) husband and I agreed to go to the nudist beach in Portsmouth today. It’s…

  • Not My Type, But My Match

    Not My Type, But My Match

    Yesterday was the first of the two day event that is Southampton Pride. I really didn’t…

  • Salmon Sandwiches and Spag Bol

    Salmon Sandwiches and Spag Bol

    I’d planned to go to the nudist beach with my (ex) husband today, but the weather…

  • Shapes, Kings, and the Fifth Element

    Shapes, Kings, and the Fifth Element

    In a change to the usual broadcast… I spent the day in Colchester visiting a friend’s…

  • 735m

    735m

    After the – uh – educational experience at the sauna, I started wondering about hookup apps.…

  • The Gods Sent Seagulls, Not Lovers

    The Gods Sent Seagulls, Not Lovers

    So far, I have only thought about playing with other guys. The thought is huge and…

  • The lightness returning

    The lightness returning

    For the first time since last summer, my counsellor came to the house for my session.…

  • What Are We To Each Other?

    What Are We To Each Other?

    On the second day of my long break I woke up gently, wandered downstairs and made…

  • Terence Stamp: From Krypton to the Outback

    Terence Stamp: From Krypton to the Outback

    I first encountered Terence Stamp as a child in Superman II, where he played General Zod…

  • Massage, Mussels, and Missing You

    Massage, Mussels, and Missing You

    I have felt extremely burnt out by all the emotional stress of the last few years:…