January 2025
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Meditations on mediations
My friend, Tacitus, who is yep months older than me as a Eunuch asked me a…
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Last time with my counsellor
Thinking about couples counselling I’ve been putting some thoughts into what I want to say to…
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Change is challenging
Overwhelming change Yesterday I was chatting with a friend, when the penny dropped and I understood…
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Understanding a past disappointment
Its interesting that the more I learn about myself, the greater understanding I have of my…
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Holocaust memorial day
Yesterday evening, my husband and I watched the holocaust memorial service on the BBC. The Prince…
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Reflections a year on – Part 3
This post continues with my review of the kinds of things I considered before pressing on…
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The face I’d rather not see
The husband had been low since last weekend. I didn’t have a clear idea if why.…
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C*ck cages and castration
While I might have felt dysphoria for as long as I can remember (with varying strengths),…
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Friday! At last!
I feel really quite knackered this week. The husband has been in a mood and I…
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A second coming out
This story was written at the suggestion of an online friend (who has since been converted…
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Impromptu chat
We’d both been sleeping very badly, the husband because he was angry about something, me because…
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Reflections a year on – Part 2
This post continues with my review of the kinds of things I considered before pressing on…
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Couples counselling concerns
What a rotten night! My head was busy – after the talk on Saturday, when my…
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Unmasking Autism: Book Review (part 2)
Continued from Unmasking Autism: Book Review. Chapter 3 – The anatomy of the mask The first…
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Can we talk later please?
Last night, the husband went up to bed early, so I sat and read for a…